To all the Dear MotheHappy Mother's Dayrs,

I just want to say, “We Love You Very Much!”

I hope and pray the following message will be a blessing to everyone.

Be Blessed Mums.

7 Ways to Love Your Mother

“In John 19:26-27 Mary witnessed the crucifixion from the foot of the cross. Can you even imagine how she must have felt?

Jesus turns to John and says, take care of her, and looks at his mother and says, let him stand in my place as your son. John lived a very long life, and I believe he took care of Mary until she went to heaven.

Jesus is on the cross, bearing the weight of the sins of the whole world on His shoulders, yet He sees to it to make sure His mother is taken care of after He is gone! As God, Jesus is dealing with eternal matters, but as a man, He’s showing all of us today how important it is to take care and love our mothers!

You cannot be willfully wrong with your mother and be right with God. If your mother is still alive, regardless of your and her ages, you can love her in these 7 ways:

1. Love her verbally.

Esp. men have the philosophy I don’t have to say I love you, you already know it. I have told you before; if I change my mind I’ll let you know! Or, I SHOW love, not just say it and that may be true, but a woman needs to hear those words, I Love You! Children need to hear it and saying it makes you more of a man, not less! And spouses need to hear it too.

I received this very touching story on the net. “I enlisted shortly after Pearl Harbor. Thirty-six days later, I was on my way to the Philippines. En route, the Philippines fell to the Japanese, and we were routed to Australia. Eleven days after we landed, I met the most beautiful girl in the world. On our first date, I told her I was going to marry her. I did, 18 months later, while on a 10-day R-and-R leave from New Guinea. After more than 57 years of marriage and two children, my beloved “Mary” died five days before Christmas. Although we agreed that our ashes were to be scattered over the mountains, I found I could not part with hers. While Mary was alive, she would frequently say, “You don’t know how much I love you.” I d reply, “Likewise.” I never said, “I love you.” Now her ashes are on my dresser, where I tell her several times a day how much I love her, but it’s too late. Although I wrote poetry to her, I could not bring myself to say the three words I knew she wanted most to hear. As my dearest was dying and we thought she was comatose, I told her, “There aren’t enough words to tell you how much I love you. ” A few hours later, she whispered, “Not enough words” and died”. The reason I am writing is to urge men to express their feelings while their loved ones are alive. I don’t know why, but many men are reluctant to express the depth of their feelings. Our spouses need to hear it, our children our mothers also! Some men would say, I am just not turned that way then turn around! I am just not comfortable then be uncomfortable!

2. Love her physically.

When’s the last time you gave her a big hug without her asking for it or a kiss on the cheek, or a neck rub, or just sat on the couch and held her for a change she’s the first person who ever touched you she wrapped you up in her womb for months, and you came out and first priority was to hold you, and she cuddled you, stroked your head, rubbed your feet, held your little cheeks against her, gave you a finger to grasp in love she did all these things, including grooming you with a licked thumb! When you were little she could say, give me sugar, and you’d pucker up and she’d accept your wet, sloppy kiss and even say thank you! You give her bear hugs so tight she didn’t have to hold on to you you’d just cling to her as she walked around! She changed your diapers, potty trained you, and held the Kleenex for you to blow your nose! She wiped food off of your face years longer than she should have had to! She constantly touched you! And she may have to hand you off to another, and her life may endure some heavy changes, but she deserves your touch and should never have to give that up completely! It would mean more to her than flowers or candy, or eating out, or a diamond necklace (well, let’s not go too far!) Once I walked into an aged care facility in there’s not a single instance in which some of those precious old ladies don’t try to reach out and touch me, a total stranger! You can tell, she’s starved for that simple, innocent brand of physical love.

3. Love her patiently.

Mothers have an incredible job with no pay. No position in the business world compares to the physical, emotional, and spiritual commitment she has in motherhood. No Occupation She rises up at break of day and through her tasks she races. She cooks the meals as best she may and scrubs the children’s faces While schoolbooks, lunches, homework too, all need consideration… And yet the census man insists She has, No Occupation When breakfast dishes all are done She bakes a pudding, maybe. She cleans the rooms up, one by one, With one eye watching baby. The mending pile she then attacks by way of variation. And yet the census man insists She has, No Occupation. ‘she irons for a little while, then presses pants for Daddy. She welcomes with a cheery smile returning lass and laddie. A hearty dinner next she cooks (no time for relaxation), And yet the census man insists She has No Occupation. Don’t ever make the mistake of asking a lady, Do you work, or stay at home, The only thing worse you can ask is when she’s due if you’re not 100% sure she’s expecting! And many ladies today have to work on top of the full time job they already have. Here’s the point, in spite of all she does for us, we often become impatient with her we get so used to her taking care of things we come to expect it and are outraged that those clothes are still dirty, that’s not ironed, you’re out of my favourite cookies, you know I like that over rice, where is it she’s picking you up at school because you don’t like to ride the bus, but she’s scolded for being 5 minutes late! Love her patiently. Because she’s tender to your needs is no reason to take advantage of her, it’s reason to be patient and to love her all the more! Teens : it is unfair for you to be more kind, considerate, patient with your friends and your friend’s mothers than your own mother! If you treated your friends like you treat your mom you wouldn’t have friends, and if you treated their mom like you do yours their mom wouldn’t let their kid have anything to do with you! Your mom deserves better she’s not a rug to wipe every negative thought on! For us adults with living mothers: Love her patiently. Dobson read on Focus on Family Radio letter from 80 yr. old woman on her birthday, To all my children I suppose my upcoming birthday started my thoughts along these lines… This is a good time to tell you that what I truly want are things I can never get enough of, yet they are free. I want the intangibles. I would like for you to come and sit with me, and for you to be relaxed. We can talk, or we can be silent. I would just like for us to be together. I need your patience when I don’t hear what you say the first time. I know how tiresome it is to always be repeating, but sometimes I must ask you to repeat. I need your patience when I think too much about the past, with my slowness and my set ways. I want you to be tolerant with what the years have done to me physically. Please be understanding about my personal care habits. I spill things. I lose things. I get unduly excited when I try to figure out my bank statements. I can’t remember what time to take my medication, or if I took it already. I take too many naps. Sometimes sleep helps to pass the day. Well, there you have it: Time, Patience, and Understanding. Those are priceless gifts that I want. Finally, in his letter, the Apostle Paul wrote, I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me. I know I can, too! It’s a wonderful feeling to know His eye is on the sparrow and I know He cares for me. I guess being old isn’t so bad after all! Love, Mom Patiently.

4. Love her attentively.

Mothers listen as you pour out your heart she has a sympathetic ear, and always has and even as an adult you’ve gone to her when you want someone who will really listen and understand and she’ll always be on your side. documentary last year of men going to execution for capital crimes. They interviewed the men and their mothers, too. Invariably the moms would say, He’s such a good boy! Interviewer: yes, but he slaughtered 37 with an axe! … I know, but he has a good heart! It’s no wonder we like to talk to mom she listens but now she has issues, and now it’s your turn to be her rock and take time to listen it’s payback time! But, she’s always complaining yes, just like you did! Talks about herself asks same question over and over In their older days, our parents have many fears anxieties may we treat them as we’d hope to be treated when we are in their shoes!

5. Love her gratefully.

An elementary science class had been studying magnets, and how metal objects are attracted to them. At the end of the semester the teacher put on exam this question: 6 letters, starts with M, picks up things, what am I, Over half the children wrote (say it together… ) Mother! She needs a sincere thank you, and not just today, but from a genuinely thankful heart when least expected! A few years ago my Mum sat me down and said, You all are living the best days of your life right now, because you have your children and your parents. It caused us to realize 2 truths: one about our parents: and how we won’t always have them. And another about our children: let’s be the kind of parents we ought to be!

6. Love her generously.

There’s nothing too good for her, we could never repay her, but we ought to die trying before she does! She didn’t spend on herself unless all your needs were met she could easily do without, and now it’s time for her to have something she wants! She clears her schedule so she can run you around she gives up opportunities so you can have more opportunities! Ill. math question, state your answer as a fraction: If there’s 10 at the table and one apple pie, how much does each one get, One ninth! Don’t you know your fractions Do you know my mother, If there’s that many at the table and only one pie, she don’t want none!

7. Love her honourably.

Exodus 20:12 Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee. This is binding as long as your mother lives. Another command says children, obey non-binding when you leave home, but honour, is different! If the husband is the head of the home, then the mother is the heart… don’t break her heart! Yeah, but my mother wasn’t honourable! Well, the Bible says nothing about that qualification it only asks, is she your mother! By the way, it’s the only one of the 10 commandments which includes a built-in promise of blessing!

When God created mothers

When the good Lord created mothers, He was into His sixth day of overtime, when an angel appeared and said, “You’re doing a lot of fiddling around on this one. “The Lord replied, “have you seen the specs on this order, She has to be completely washable, but not plastic; Have 180 moveable parts … all replaceable; Run on black coffee and leftovers; Have a lap that disappears when she stands up; A kiss that can cure anything from a broken leg to a disappointing love affair; And six pair of hands.”

The angel shook her head slowly and said, “Six pair of hands, No way!”, the Lord said “It’s not the hands that are causing me problems, It’s the three pair of eyes that mothers have to have.” One pair that sees through closed doors when she asks What are you kids doing in there, when she already knows. Another in the back of her head that sees what she shouldn’t, but what she needs to know, and of course the ones in front that look at a child when he goofs up and say, I understand and I love you, Without so much as uttering a word.

“I’m so close to creating something so close to myself. Already, I have one who heals herself when she is sick … can feed a family of six on one pound of hamburger … and get a nine year old to stand under a shower. Not only can she think, she can reason and compromise.”

Finally, the angel bent over and ran her finger across the cheek of the mother. “There’s a leak,” she pronounced, “I told you that you were trying to put too much in this model.”

“That’s not a leak,” said the Lord, “it’s a tear.”

“What is it for” asked the angel.

The Lord replied, “It’s for joy, sadness, disappointment, pain, loneliness and pride.”

“You’re a genius! ” shouted the angel.

With a somber look on his face, the Lord said, “I didn’t put it there.”

How about a hand now for the crowning jewel of God’s creation: our mothers!

Lord, help us never to be too busy for mom, if you could take time and great effort for her on the cross in your death, help us to love her while we have her in our life!”

Grace Notes Ministries http://www.gbcdecatur.org/sermons/7WaysLoveMother.html

Happy Mother’s Day Blessings,

Pastor Daniel & the Team at Catch The Fire


6 Responses to “Happy Mother’s Day / A Great message for everyone – Pr Daniel”

  1. 1 Joe

    HI ALL DEAR MOTHERS BLESSET OF THE LORD JESUS.
    I WONT TO PRAY THAT ALL MOTHERS WILL BE BLESSED LIKE
    NEVER BEFORE,I AND MY DEAR WIFE ANNIE,THAT WE LOVE YOUS ALL,
    WITH THE LOVE OF GOD,WE PRAY THAT THIS MOTHER DAY WILL BE
    A DAY YOU WILL NEVER FORGET,MAY GOD RICHLY BLESS YOU AND
    WILL BRENG ALL YOUR FAMILY CLOSER TOGEDER,LIKE NEVER BEFORE,
    HAPPY,HAPPY,HAPPY,MOTHER DAY,
    FROM JOE AND ANNIE GALEA,………..TO ALL THE MOTHERS IN YOUR FAMILY’S, JOE

  2. 2 Penny

    Hello Pastor Daniel,
    This is wonderful. It is certainly a blessing to me.

    I will also pray for you and your ministry and Pastor Jason and your families that you may be blessed abundantly. You are a real inspiration to me and I have told our family members in Melbourne to go to your church.

    I also love these updates and will continue to pray as you lead.

    One thing I have been praying for is the kidnapped girls in Nigeria.

    Love and blessings,
    Penny
    From NZ

  3. 3 John

    Thank you Danny and Team,

    That’s one of your best postings !!

    Recently an old Scotsman friend of mine died aged 94.
    He had worked out his own idea of religion which included
    Reincarnation etc. I had many very straight talks to him
    and even 3 days before he died I tried to persuade him of
    the danger he was in, without success. I see this as a very
    sad case but years ago he told me that the great sorrow
    of his life was that he had NEVER SAID “I LOVE YOU ”
    to his wife who had died 12 years before he told me .

    I have often wondered about this male reluctance to say
    “I love you.”. I have seen in myself this same psychological
    phenomenon and recently I remarked to one of my sons
    that my farewells to him never seem to get beyond “Love ya ”

    Fortunately I did say “I love you” to my wife but she died
    in 1992 and I wish I had said it more often. Your posting is
    a good warning to us males.

    As Billy Graham would say :” May the Lord bless you real good !!”

    John

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  4. 4 Dot

    Thats beautiful. Thankyou. Happy Mothers day to Mrs Naliah too. God Bless, Dot

  5. 5 Hazel

    God Bless You and Your Team, Pastor Daniel. This is MORE than a Mother’s day Card and I am certainly Blessing my ‘aged’ Friends and children, and Pastor, with your great exhortation and Truth. Such insights need to be heard regularly because ‘Familiarity’ is such a destroying spirit and widely prevalent within the church alone today, I see it so blatantly and one reason is the dominance of flesh/ego.

    Wishing ALL Mums in your church a Blessed Day and the children break the ‘curse’ by Rising up and Calling their Mums….”BLESSED”.

    Hazel

  6. 6 Martie

    Hi!
    I am shocked! 9 months pregnant and they call it “abortion”? That’s murder! Even after conception is already killing the baby!
    Martie

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